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TABLE OF CONTENTS

INTRODUCTION	Page 5
NEGATIVITY	Page 6
What is the Answer?	Page 8
So how can one agree with the positive potential when things are so bad?	Page 11
Here is the Secret of How to Eliminate Negative Situations from Your Life	Page 12
Here's How to Handle Negative Situations ThatHave Already Manifested	Page 15
The Reason Why People Cannot Achieve The positive Outcomes They Want	Page 17
A WORD ABOUT AGREEMENT	Page 20
How To Build Your Realities	Page 25
Creating Reality	Page 26
KARMA	Page 30
Right and Wrong	Page 34
Observations Regarding Karma	Page 35
Why The Being Violates His Standards	Page 35
Why The being Gets Furious With Itself When It Violates Its Own Basic Standards	Page 36
More On Karma	Page 37
Identity Classification	Page 38
The Winner	Page 38
The Survivor	Page 39
The Victim	Page 40
The Loser	Page 41
The Observer	Page 42
CONCLUSION	Page 43

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INTRODUCTION

We experience it almost on a daily basis. It does not matter if you are a pauper or are among the wealthiest people on the planet, you will still experience negativity and stress in your daily life. If this were not so, there would not be so many self-help books on the market and there would not be antidepressants prescribed to millions of people.

Negativity and stress are extremely detrimental to a person's health and well being. It isn't enough to eat a healthy diet if one is still under a lot of pressure and experiencing one negative situation after another. Drugs can help in that they block from the person's perception most of the emotional pain in a given negative situation but they do not handle the underlying cause of the stress and negativity that is causing the emotional pain.

Wouldn't it be a hundred percent better if one could handle stress and negativity without resorting to drugs, psychoanalysis, spiritual counseling, etc.?

This ebook shows you how.

You can easily handle any stressful or negative situation in your life. The only requirements are that you are honest and diligent about eliminating the daily stress-and-negativity-causing practices you have been engaged in and substitute them for the methods given to you in this ebook.

It is simple. It is magical, and it WORKS!

This ebook will explain what negativity is, why various self-help methods do not work and it will show you the mechanics behind negative situations, why they occur and best of all, what you can do to eliminate them from your life. In addition, this ebook will show you how to create and build the kind of reality you want. It will also explain to you how Karma works and how you can eliminate karma from your daily life. In addition, you will learn about the five different kinds of basic identities and their characteristics. You will plainly see how the identity you wear contributes to the negativity and stress you experience on a daily basis.

So read on and learn how to enjoy life again.

NEGATIVITY

What is Negativity?

Negativity is a shield against emotional, mental, spiritual and physical pain. It is mainly based on blame, abuse, secrets and copings, i.e, lying, cheating, stealing, procrasting, etc. It causes heartbreak, depression, low mood levels, failure in life, arguments, upsets, debt, and all around unhappiness.

One tries to counter negativity by using positive thinking, affirmations, prayers, various fortune telling methods and even psychotherapy and spiritual counseling. Much of the time, these are of no avail...


The negativity happens anyway.

I am sure you, like the rest of us, consider yourself a good person.

So why is it so many bad things are happening to you?

Why is it that if a situation has a chance of going right or wrong, you can count on it going wrong?

Are you just unlucky?

Are you being punished by God for some unremembered transgression?

Is it bad karma or fate?

Were you born under an unlucky star?

Is it because of your horoscope and the date of your birth and your rising sign?

Believe it or not, the answer to the above questions is a resounding

NO!

Then "WHY?" you ask.

The answer to that question is actually very simple once you understand the mechanics involved.

Before we go further, we need to define the term POSTULATE. in the sense that it is going to be used in this ebook. Basically a postulate is a decision or a resolution that has been made by you, the "spiritual" being, rather than you, the"physical" being. The interesting thing about a postulate, is if it is in the category of an original postulate, the subsequent postulates made that are meant to counter the original postulate only strengthens it. What does this have to do with the negativity that is going on in your life? Well, if the negative situation you are experiencing has been similar to other negative situations you've had in the past, then there is an original postulate behind the series of bad situations you've been battling in your life. Unfortunately, most of the time we do not remember making such postulates so they are not available to our consciousness. But each time you try to handle a negative situation with affirmations or positive thinking, etc., you are only empowing that negative situation because you are resisting it instead of handling it.

If you'll examine the bad situations with postulates in mind, you'll discover that all those methods you might have been using trying to counter the negativity you're experiencing have really been countering-positive-postulates that have been instrumental in causing that same negativity you've been resisting to strongly manifest. Ah! I can hear the questions arising. So let me make more sense out of this. You have an original unknown postulate in your subconscious mind. This postulate is behind the creation of a negative situation. You vainly try to "fix" the situation by positive thinking and affirmations. However, because the original postulate is still in existence but is buried somewhere in your unconscious, all your affirmations and positive thinking empower the original postulate because while you are reciting in the mirror your positive affirmation, you consciously know that it is not true and that the negative situation IS. In effect, you are really affirming the negative situation.

So you originally put a postulate into your universe which happened to be somewhat negative but seemed the right thing to do at the time. You now know that any other desire or postulate you put into the universe to eliminate the first desire works only to EMPOWER that first postulate. The question then arises as to how can one gain control over the negativity in one's life IF everything one does counters it and causes it to manifest anyway? It seems like one unconsciously creates negative situations and then there is no way to get rid of them. Every method one uses only solidifies the situation and one loses. So, no matter how much positive thinking one does, the negativity more often than not manifests anyway.

SO...WHAT IS THE ANSWER?

The postulate is only one part of the story. I told you about it so you could understand why the bad situations tend to be similar to earlier unpleasant situations and give the impression of repeating. The postulate also is behind what is commonly known as karma which we'll talk about later on in this ebook.

So the next thing we need to define on the basis of this ebook is the word "POTENTIAL".

POTENTIAL: Capable of being but not yet realized; latent. N. Capacity for growth, development or progress. 2. The potential energy of a unit charge by virtue of its location in an electric field; voltage.

The part of the above definition we are interested in is "Capable of being but not realized yet; latent".

If one analyzes any given situation, it will be found that before it manifested as either negative or positive, it first was simply a potential situation. There was a negative potential and there was a positive potential.

In its normal state, each potential is balanced with respect to the other.

Generally, in situations one has a choice. One can go into agreement with one potential or the other. It is usually easier for one to go into agreement with the negative potential either unconsciously or through giving up, doing affirmations, praying, taking the wrong advice,etc. Thus, with one's agreement, the negative potential goes into an ascendency over the positive. With its ascendency, the negative potential expresses its power usually through a threat of some kind of future pain and low mood level. In one's attempts to avoid this future pain, one tries to resist the negative, thus helping it to solidify and manifest as a true fact in one's life.

One gives the NEGATIVE potential power when one chooses to agree with it.

One gives the POSITIVE potential power when one chooses to agree with it.

However, to agree with the positive potential often seems to be an impossibility. The negative situation has been given so much power and has solidified so much that trying to agree with the positive potential seems hopeless because obviously, "it won't work." "It is just wishful thinking."

Actually, that is "WRONG" thinking and is furthering agreement with the negative potential.

SO HOW CAN ONE AGREE WITH THE POSITIVE POTENTIAL WHEN THINGS ARE SO BAD?

Certainly not with making new positive postulates to counter the original negative one. And not with positive thinking, affirmations, prayers, or even psychoanalysis or spiritual counseling. These are all agreements with the negative potential.

"Why won't prayer work?"you ask,"After all aren't we are always told that "prayer works".

Does it really?

Being quite honest with yourself, how many times have you noticed, either in your own experience or that of others, that by praying, a negative situation turned into a positive one?

Probably not all that often.

However, if you have noticed prayer working, there is a good explanation for that too--but not what you're thinking.

There is an old axiom that says "God helps those who help themselves."

Do you know why this is true?

It is because you are not depending on some outside force to help you.

Does that sound strange?

Although I am not discounting the idea of God, the reality of the matter is that after the prayer, you began to work with belief and faith. and you began to ignore the negative aspects of the situation. God has nothing to do with it. You simply stopped agreeing with the negative potential and went into agreement with the positive potential. See how easy that was?

When the negative potential is in its ascendency, that is when using faith and belief are very important.

Belief is confidence in the truth or existence of something not immediately susceptible to rigorous proof and Faith is the belief in the existence of something that is not based on proof.

HERE IS THE SECRET OF HOW TO ELIMINATE NEGATIVE SITUATIONS FROM YOUR LIFE

One places attention, faith and belief on the goal--the positive outcome--and by doing this, one goes into agreement with that positive outcome. One's goal exists but one must believe in it despite the adversity that gets attracted. The difference between this and countering the negativity is that one accepts that the negativity exists, but one does not go into agreement with it. One keeps attention on the positive outcome that is wanted and ignores the negative. When the negative potential tries to assert itself through your thinking, imagination or consciousness, simply acknowledge its existence but then ignore it and keep belief and faith centered on the positive outcome just as one naturally does when the positive potential is in its ascendency and everything is working out well. One does this with a feather touch rather than with force or exertion as these latter aspects agree with the negative potential. Just knowing or believing it will work out and having faith is enough to energize the positive potential and keep the negative potential at bay.

Well, the above was quite a mouthful. So, let me simplify it. Supposing when you were a child you told an adult what you wanted to be when you grew up. More than likely you probably didn't get a very satisfying response from that adult. If you said, "When I grow up, I want to be a movie star.", the response you might have gotten was negative, i.e., something like: "You can't be a movie star because you have to be beautiful". Or maybe you said you wanted to be the president of the United States when you grew up. The negative response you might have gotten was "You have to be rich in order to become president of the United States" when obviously your family was not rich. If you went into agreement with the adult, you never became a movie star nor did you become president of the United States. You ended up being something else. But what might have happened if you kept your eye on the goal and you ignored the negative responses you got? What if you looked at movie stars and found that quite a few of them are not beautiful at all? And what if you did research and found that many former presidents were not all that rich and some came from families that were even poorer than yours? Do you think you would still believe the adults who told you in so many words that you couldn't be that which you wanted to be?

Of course not!

More than likely when you went to school, you took all the right courses which would keep you on the path of your goal. Do you think you might have reached your goal?

Can you feel all the negatives popping up in your mind right now? Can you feel the absurdity of thinking you can become a movie star or the president of the United States or something equally fantastic? If you can, then that is what the negative potential feels like when it is trying to ascend.

Let's take a simpler example: You have some situation entering into your life that could mean a better life for you if it happens. It is that "could" which represents the positive and negative potentials. If during the situation you begin to feel the good part isn't going to happen and you begin to envision all the bad things the future would hold if the good part failed to manifest, then you are in the process of agreeing with the negative potential.

However, if you feel these things cropping up in your mind and you simply notice them but tell yourself "Oh, those are the negative potentials trying to crop up. I'm not interested in them. I am aware they're there but I am going for the positive side of this thing" (or words to that effect), then you are in the process of agreeing with the positive potential.

Once you understand this concept and practice it, you'll see for yourself that this does work. You'll have positive outcomes more often than not as long as you continue to ignore the negative and concentrate on the positive.

Why do you suppose people who are always winning win?

Is it because they're lucky? Is it because they have money? Is it because they were born with a silver spoon in their mouth?

Of course not!

Winners naturally practice the same concepts that I am giving you in this ebook. They are so used to thinking this way that often they don't even realize that they're doing it. Our own current president of the United States does this which is reflected in his motto "We can" and in his attitude of not concentrating on the bad things of the past but rather pushing forward into the future. The man is a natural winner. (See the section on Identity Classification later on in this ebook).

Supposing that right now at this very moment, you are immersed in a negative situation. Because the situation is manifesting in your present time, it appears to be very real and unchangeable. The situation manifested because you allowed it to. You allowed your mind to play with the negative possibilities. You probably asked yourself or others many times "What if (some negative outcome) happens?" in a desire to comfort yourself. You probably envisioned what you would have to do if the negative outcome happened. These things might have given you some small comfort but you were helping the negative potential to manifest each time you allowed yourself to indulge in the "What if's?" or the envisioning of possible negative outcomes. Now you have what appears to be a very real negative situation. It has manifested. Now what? To find out, read on.

HERE'S HOW TO HANDLE NEGATIVE SITUATIONS THAT HAVE ALREADY MANIFESTED

First off, what you must realize is that even though the situation appears real and unchangeable, you CAN change it.You start off by treating the current negative situation the same way you treat the negative potential. You ignore it but you do not resist it.

There are positive possibilites that will allow you to handle the negative situation but now, more than ever, FAITH and BELIEF are necessary.

You need to have FAITH that the negative situation will work out and you need to BELIEVE that your actions to handle the situation will work.

You created the negative situation by "believing" in it through your indulging in the negative possibilities and the "What-if's" and, by doing this, you allowed the negative situation to manifest.

SO, STOP LOOKING AT IT!

Since you created the situation, you can uncreate it by allowing the positive potential to manifest by using the tools of "belief" and "faith".

Remember that the negative situation is really a repeating of a past event. It gets its power from AGREEMENT in present time that the current situation is the SAME as the negative pictures of situations in the past.

When the negative situation you are experiencing tries to intrude in your mind, just tell yourself that "you're not interested" and concentrate on the positive situation or circumstances that you wish to achieve.

You'll notice almost right away that although the negative situation is still present, it does begin to gradually grow weaker and although you are aware of its presence, good things begin to enter into your reality. Be sure to acknowledge these good things and be thankful for them.

It might be in order now to discuss just why a negative situation happens and why it often is so difficult to have a positive situation work out when you want it to.

THE REASON WHY PEOPLE CANNOT ACHIEVE THE POSITIVE OUTCOMES THEY WANT

The church calls it "sin". Others call it a violation against a code of honor or against integrity, principles or virtues. I call it COPING.

Before we go on, we must define the word "CHARGE". Charge is that strong feeling one experiences when angry. It can also be the feelings of fear, grief, depression or apathy. When charge is not handled, it remains in the past and becomes what is called bypassed charge. This bypassed charge can be pulled into present time during times of upsets.

More often than not, one will find that man is basically good and is not inherently evil. If a person has a choice, he usually will choose what feels right to him at the time. He does not deliberately do evil unless he is a sociopath or a psychopath. When a person does something that we consider bad, during the commission of his act, he is not deliberately attempting to hurt anyone. He probably is trying to avoid some kind of pain or some kind of negative situation.

If two people are having a dispute, close examination will reveal that each party considers himself to be right and the other party to be wrong. They may have harse words and may even strike one another. But in actual fact, neither one wants to do these things. What really causes them to take such actions is byassed charge.

Most people do not want to do wrong things. However, they often find themselves in circumstances that leaves them no choice but to do wrong. So they lie, cheat, steal, commit adultry, maybe even murder. At those moments they are trying to survive and to avoid painful situations. Their lying, cheating, stealing, etc. are ways they found to COPE with untenetable situations. Their actions patch or handle a present time crisis. However, in the long run, these copings will serve to do them in.

The reason why people get upset with one another is because the person who is being upset at is unknowing projecting back at the accuser, the accuser's own secret copings and bypassed charge in the area of dispute.

When a person perceives a projection from another , it brings to the subconscious mind his own secret copings. The person begins to manifest charge or bypassed charge which then interferes with what he is attempting to achieve.

Each time one receives a projection of these copings, the charge accumulates. One ends up with a huge backlog of bypassed charge which repells him from achieving his wants. One can be sitting in a chronic upset based on his copings and think this is how life is. Visions and plans generally fail. One looks for solutions to the upsetting situation but still continues to sit in the upset because of one gross OMITTED thing. He omits handling his secret, hidden copings even though they are continuously projected back at him probably on a daily basis. These copings can be of commission or omission. Both are just as deadly to one's happiness.

One also performs the same "projection service" for others. One's copings project back to others their own secret hidden copings. This then creates charge and bypassed charge. The end result is that the others get angry at the person and doing whatever they can to make him wrong so they can be right because in no way are they willing to take responsibility for the consequences created by their secret, hidden copings. Consequently their dreams fail to manifest and their wants fail to be attained.

The upside is that by taking responsibility for our creations and their consequences, we can take the right steps to eliminating the continued secret, hidden copings. We can project honoring our principles, honor, virtues and integrity at others who will, in turn, do the same back to us. Thus we all achieve our positive dreams and visions and attainment of wants which we project at others through our successes and they, in turn, project their positive dreams and attainment of wants back to us.It is very easy to discern one's own secret copings which often are hidden even from oneself. All you need to do is to sit down with pen and paper and write out the negative situation you are experiencing. Look to see what is the main theme of the situation. What you will find is that the main theme of the situation is a reflection of something you've done in the past and then hid it from yourself. If you listen to what the one who is angry at you is saying (or screaming at you), you can discern that person's past, hidden copings but, beware! That person is only projecting back to you your own hidden sins. By looking at the negative situation with a discerning eye and being willing to look at your own past sins connected to the situation or a past similar situation, you then start taking responsibility for them.

Combine this with the method I've already give you on how to handle negative situations and you'll begin to notice that things are working out for the good. Your desired situations begin to manifest and you are taking control of your life.

A WORD ABOUT AGREEMENT

First a definiton of the term "life force": Life force is spiritual energy which is sometimes called prana or chi.

Being in present time or NOW is important because present time is the area of manifestation and power. It is the interface between past and future.

The past has already manifested. Its picures have been agreed upon and have been affirmed in present time.

The future is yet to come. Its pictures have not yet been agreed upon. They have not yet manifested in the physical universe and thus have not been affirmed.

The negative potential is based on the past affirmations of existence. Its power lies with reaffirming, in present time, the past pictures with present time agreement in order to avoid the past PAIN of responsibility.

The positive potential is based on present time agreement of a future-time picture (the vision or the goal). Its power lies within one's faith and belief in future-time pleasure with present time agreement.

The positive potential is based on the future.

The negative potential is based on the past.

Agreement is based in present time.

If one agrees with either the negative potential or the positive potential, it WILL manifest in present time.

Agreement keeps the potential active.

Indulging in negative scenarios keeps the negative potential charged. The charge activates physical and emotional unpleasant sensations. Because the negative potential gets its power from the past, we feel its effects more physically than we do the positive potential's which gets its voltage, i.e., free life force, from the future--the unmanifested.

The negative potential is a series of blocks and resistences to the free flow of life force. An area, or parts of an area, can go dead or short-circuited by our agreement with the negative potential. Stress is definitely part of the negativity arsenal. It is one of the strongest of the body's physical unpleasant sensations and one of the most frequently employed by the negative potential.

The positive potential is a flow of free life force and is channeled toward our visions through determination, belief and faith.

When one continually handles the blocks and impediments to a positive frame of mind through spiritual counseling or self-examination, there is not a big release of life force as one would expect after undergoing a touch-and-go situation. This would be because the life force was kept flowing in the channels of determination, belief and faith through agreement with the positive potential. Keeping the flow of free life force going through constantly mainaining positive agreement at each point where free life force would have been blocked or trapped, creates a feeling of calmness and satisfaction upon reaching the goal. There is no release of trapped life force because none was ever blocked. The flow continued unimpeded.

If you are in a contest with another party, more than likely, they too might be involved with negative thinking and have gone into agreement with their negative potential. Their agreement with their negative potential goes into agreement with your positive potential. The opposing party counters its negative potential and this stregthens your positive potential until there is so much agreement that your positive potential becomes a reality and the other party's negative potential becomes solid and appears to be a bad or negative situation in their universe.

So person A has a dispute with person B. The dispute goes to court. Person A's positive potential is that he will win the dispute. Person B's positive potential is that she will win the dispute. Person A's negative potential actually consists of all the arguments that go into agreement with person B's positive potential. Same goes for Person B. If person A wins in court, then his POSITIVE potential has ascended and person B's NEGATIVE potential has ascended. If person B wins in court, then her POSITIVE potential has ascended and Person A's NEGATIVE potential has ascended. Whether one's positive potential ascends depends on how much agreement the other party has with his/her negative potential. The more the other party agrees with his negative potential the higher the opposing party's positive potential will rise.

Agreement creates reality. Countering, resisting or opposing creates solidity which appears to be reality but is not. It is an involuntary replication of some charged past event that is similar to what is being opposed.

The negative potential becomes an energy ridge which entraps life force which is then used to energize past images of loss, pain or failure. The negative potential energizes involuntary replications which are past painful images which are holographic and therefore look and feel like reality but they are not. They are three dimensional holographic images of the past projected into present time. They are property of the negative potential.

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The positive potential creates new realities with the free flow of life force particles. Positive potential agreement equals new realities.

HOW TO BUILD YOUR REALITIES

First you must have a vision (or idea) of how you would like your new reality to manifest. Then you create the reality through agreement with the positive potential of that idea or vision. YOU are the source of life force and your determination and faith act as a channel for your life force.

Determination, faith, belief and agreement with the positive potential build new realities.

Agreement with the negative potential causes what appears to be repetitions of past events. We call these seemingly repeated past events Involuntary Repeatings or replications. However, it is really our compulsive agreement with the negative potential that causes them to repeat.

It requires an awareness and an understanding of the two potentials present in situations. Often we automatically or compulsively go into agreement with the negative potential because we mistakenly believe it is real due to the pressure coming from the threat of potential pain that we are reminded of through the triggering of our body's unpleasant, physical sensations. This immediately throws us into the past pain which we try to avoid. This avoidance goes into agreement with the negative potential through resistence or opposition to it.

Looking at the potentials of a situation is the correct method. Examine what is in present time. Never mind the past, never mind the rejected future negative potential. Observe what is and go into agreement with the flows of the positive. Do this with your determination, your faith and belief in your vision. Agreement with the positive flows, agreement with what IS causes the positive to manifest--ALWAYS!

CREATING REALITY

The question to be answered is: Does magic exist? Is there really such a thing as true magic--not the trickery that magicians perform, but the kind that the spiritual being might be capable of?

This kind of magic does exist. However, we usually do not recognize it as "magic" but rather as some kind of change in reality. Some call this "a reality shift". Once in a while, a "reality shift" will occur and it will be consciously noticed. For example, I had a neighbor who lived three doors down. He lived in a house that had a garage WITH gray trim.

One day I passed by his house and noticed that his garage trim was now an aqua blue.
I pointed this out to my husband as we drove by. He casually acknowledged my comment about the house but really didn't notice it himself. The very next day when once again I passed by this neighbor's house, it once again had a gray trim.

So I had experienced a temporary shift in reality. Just why this had happened is anybody's guess.

Reality shifts are interesting in that if you consciously change your reality, you might be the only one to notice the change. To others, the changes have always been there. When I noticed my neighbor's garage trim being aqua blue instead of gray, everyone else in that shifted reality always saw the garage trim as aqua blue. I was the only one that day who noticed anything different. Again, the next day, when reality reverted to what it had been originally, I was the only one who noticed the trim now being gray instead of blue. I pointed out to my husband that the trim was now gray instead of blue. He looked at me questioningly because he didn't recall the trim being blue the day before. He said he hadn't been paying any attention. Had I mentioned this trim change to others, they would have told me that I was dreaming.

It actually is no great feat to change reality. We do it all the time but don't really realize we are the author of the change. For example, we're in a crowded parking lot looking for a parking space. After driving around for a while and not finding any empty spaces, we decide to simply create a parking space. There are cars ahead of us looking for the same space. Then we spot a space and all those cars in front of us pass right by it as though it doesn't exist (for them, it doesn't)and so we happily slide right in. Or how about the same scenario but this time a car just happens to pull out as we approach the parking space. Coincidence? Or did we create the parking space? Same goes for continuous green lights as we're driving down a busy street. Here is how reality changing can happen:

There is something I want to have happen. Perhaps it is the sale of a house (my husband is a house investor who buys, repairs and then resells houses). The first thing I need to do is recall the sensation of how it "feels" when a house is sold. I then use this same "sold" sensation in creating the new "sold" reality of the house I want to sell. I create this reality in present time mainly using the "sold" sensation. The feeling I generate is how it feels having this particular house sold. One must continue maintaining this feeling without invalidating it. Also one must use the tools of faith and belief

We actually had a house for sale some time back. We held open houses and I applied my technique for a "sold" house. Soon after that, a woman came along and decided she wanted the house. She signed a purchase agreement and was very happy with the prospect of owning the house. She would come to visit it, measure the windows for curtains, etc. This went on for two weeks and then suddenly, over a weekend, she changed her mind and no longer wanted the house. She backed out of the deal and was willing to lose her deposit. Eventually we sold the house to another party.

I didn't think too much about this until we had occasion to sell another house just a few weeks later. Once again, we held open houses and finally I decided to try my "sold" reality technique. Sure enough, a woman and her family came along, fell in love with the house, and she signed a purchase agreement. They were happy about their pending purchase for about a week. During that time, the woman showed the house to her relatives and investor friends. And then, just as in the first case, the woman suddenly decided she didn't want the house after all and backed out of the deal.

These two events were very much alike and both were a surprise and a huge disappointment.

What do you think had happened to cause these two sales to suddenly fall through as they did?

Invalidation of the created reality!

The realities were created in that the two houses were sold. However, those realities were not stable enough and they had to revert to the negative realities of the houses not being sold. The second incident was actually an involuntary replication of the first changed reality

The question is: "Why did this happen?" If I created a reality in which the house is sold, why was it that the reality did not continue to exist? Why did it revert?

The answer is that there was not enough agreement to keep the realities going. Agreement creates reality. In a nut shell, we had our personal reality agreement but we did not have the mega universe agreement. The formula is that creations in your personal reality do not require outside agreement but the minute others are involved in the reality change, it also requires the mega universe agreement to make that reality stick.

Let us examine the two constructed realities. I created a reality where the first house was sold. That reality lasted for two weeks and then it collapsed, reverting back to the reality of the house not being sold. After the shock and disappointment of the failed sale, I did not think to attempt to create another reality in which the house was sold so the reverted reality ran its course and eventually the house got sold to another party in a few weeks.

The changed reality is artificial and is a temporary construct. It is not enough to change the reality, one also has to have agreement about the changed reality. As long as the changed reality is in one's universe, it will not continue to exist unless one continues constantly creating it. This means that if I change a reality I have to consciously continue keeping the changed reality in stimulation. If I relax and let it be, it will revert back to the old reality.

This is so as long as I am trying to change a reality that involves others. I must work with the three realities: mine, theirs, and the overall mega reality that we all share. I can put my changed reality into the mega universe and it might operate for a short while. But if I do not have agreement, then the reality cannot continue and will revert to the overall mega reality that has already been agreed upon.

Generally, the small changes that we wrought in changing a reality do not require much agreement as long as they are only in our own universe. The parking space does not require mega universe agreement. It is enough to have the agreement in our own personal universe. The lights continuously being green for you on a busy street do not require much outside agreement. However, when third parties are involved, this then requires agreement not only from their reality but also from the mega reality of the universe.

The way to get this reality is to announce it. Others have to know about the reality in order to agree with it. In the case of the houses mentioned earlier, we did NOT announce the new reality by putting "SOLD" signs outside the house. We continued to leave the "For Sale By Owner" signs out there thus announcing to the world that the house was still for sale. Had we put a "sold" sign out there, the world would have known the house was sold and more than likely our two buyers would not have backed out of the deal.

KARMA

The main hypotheses about Karma come mainly from the teachings of the East. The word KARMA means act or action.

It is commonly believed that Karma comes from out of the distant past, i.e., past lives for those who believe in reincarnation. One's state of being, for example, is sometimes blamed on Karma. If one is born deformed or crippled in some way, this can be blamed on his or her karma. One can suggest that the person who is lame and on crutches in this lifetime probably caused another to be crippled in some past lifetime. Or a blind person put out the eyes of another in some past lifetime. The hypothesis is correct but the timing is not.

Plainly speaking, Karma is a teacher of souls or spirits. Karma is a property of the present lifetime and teaches through life lessons and experiences.

Look at your present lifetime circumstances. If you are suffering from lack of money; if you are suffering for lack of love; if you are suffering from loneliness; no matter what you are suffering from, this is your Karma. Whatever you feel you are being the effect of (usually outside forces), this is your karma and you brought it onto yourself.

The usual response to this is, "What? Why would I cause myself to________________?" You fill in the blank.

The reason for this question is because the person has no knowledge of Karma and how it works. Therefore, he continues suffering whatever negativity is present in his life and blaming it on others because he has never learned his Karmic lessons.

Now supposing you are listening and want to understand and learn from this thing called Karma. How can you go about it?

Well, the method is very simple.

All you have to do is look at the area that is causing you problems or grief. Look at the areas that have caused you to become their effect.

What you are looking at is a result of your own karma even though you knowingly would never visit such things upon yourself.

Usually, the effects of karma are negative experiences mainly because they were created out of negativity.

Once a very wise teacher said: "That which one is complaining about, criticizing, whining about, or is the effect of, is what the person is secretly, or unconsciously doing himself."

His words are true but one must know how to look at these things within himself.

It is so easy to deny that which is so plain if only we could see.

Here is a method that one can use.

• Find yourself a place where you will not be disturbed.
• Take with you pen and paper.
• Sit down and write out whatever it is that you are upset about, or are complaining about or criticizing.
• Write out everything you can think of about it. Why it upsets you; why you feel it must be criticized.
• When you have completed this, read over what you have written and take note of what comes to mind. What one theme stands out? You may have problems with this because there is a natural tendency to deny whatever comes to mind. This is why it is important for you to write out that which has been upsetting you.

Here is an example to help you.

There was a man who wanted to buy a house but did not have good enough credit for a mortgage. He contacted an investor friend who agreed to help him. The man had enough money for the down payment and he agreed that the down payment money would, in effect, be given to the investor friend, who would use it for the down payment himself. The man agreed that until he could get his credit rating handled (which might take years) and he could then take over the mortgage himself, he would live in the house as a tenant and the rent that he paid would be equal to the mortgage payment. All was well for a time but then, due to adverse financial situations, the man began to get behind on his rent. The investor friend went ahead and made the mortgage payments so he would not have a black mark against his credit rating since the mortgage was in his name. The man was having serious financial problems and failed for several months to make his rent. The investor friend continued making the mortgage payment without being reimbursed with the rent payment. Finally, the investor friend had no choice but to give the man a three-day notice to vacate the premises. The three days passed and so the investor friend then had to go to court to get a writ of restitution against the man. Meanwhile, the man was scrambling trying to raise the money for the rent but times were hard and he failed in his efforts. He tried to tell the investor friend about opportunities that were in the near future and if the investor friend would only wait, the man would surely pay him all that was owed. The investor friend's only response to this was "You expect me to take your word?" The man had lost the investor friend's respect and trust.

Upon closer examination of his plight, the man sat down pen and paper and wrote out all his upsets, complaints and criticisms about the investor friend whom he felt was being unreasonable. He felt that the investor friend should trust him and wait until the opportunity came along and the man could pay him. He felt that the investor friend was betraying him by not trusting him. When he finished, he read what he had written and found that the main theme was that of "betrayal of trust", the same thing he was accusing his investor friend of.

So the man asked himself, "When have I ever betrayed someone's trust in me?"

He then set about writing out all the times that he had betrayed another's trust (discounting all the excuses, justifications and reasonablenesses) and found many instances. One instance seemed to stand out more than the rest and he could see how he had betrayed the trust of one who was good and who helped others anonymously. The man then acknowledged that he definitely was guilty of "betrayal of trust".

The next step was to look at the consequences of this betrayal of trust.

He found that although it may look differently to a person on the outside, the betrayal of trust may have actually caused undue hardship on the persons whose trust was betrayed (usually a financial betrayal of trust by not paying back a loan, or not paying in a timely manner). The amazing thing that the man discovered was that the very negative situation he was experiencing due to his lack of money to pay the rent to the investor friend, was a replication of all the hardships he had visited upon others because of his betrayal of their trust.

Therefore, from this example, we see how Karma had entered this man's life and was attempting to teach him the error of his ways. After acknowledging that he was guilty of betrayal of trust and acknowledging the damage betrayal of trust had caused, he now needed to make reparations. Fortunately, in his case, an opportunity was arising that would allow him to make reparations. He took advantage of the opportunity and paid back everyone whose trust he betrayed. After that, his life took a turn for the better and he no longer experienced a lack of money.

He had learned the lesson Karma was trying to teach him.

The steps are simple:

1. Notice your negative situation and whom you are blaming for it.
2. Sit down in a quiet place where you won't be disturbed and write out all your complaints, criticisms and upsets about the one you are blaming.
3. Notice what theme pops out from your writings.
4. Find all the instances in your past where you did the same thing that the theme suggests.
5. Take responsibility for what you did. You do this by discounting all the justifications, excuses, reasonablenesses, making nothing of's, etc. and simply acknowledging that you did do those things and are responsible for their consequences to others.
6. Look at the consequences you caused others by doing those things. You'll notice that the consequences that you caused others, are pretty much the same consequences you are currently experiencing. This is karma in action.
7. Find ways to make reparations to those you have harmed.
8. Before, during and after you complete your reparations, refrain from committing the same harmful or coping acts again no matter what the temptations or circumstances. Karma will test you in this way to see if you indeed have learned the lesson. If you fail, you will only bring more of the same Karmic lessons onto yourself and it probably will be worse than before because obviously you still need to learn the lesson.

So, you see, for us, in order to learn the lessons of this lifetime, we must be aware of karma.

• First, we must understand how we bring karma onto ourselves by our misdeeds.
• Second,we must take responsibility for the consequences our misdeeds have caused others.
• Third, we must make reparations to those we have harmed. If one to whom we must make reparations is deceased, then we make reparations to that person's closest living relative.

By heeding the lessons of Karma and understanding how you brought their consequences upon yourself, and by making reparations for those consequences, you will prevent yourself from becoming a Victim Identity (Identity Classification in the next section).

Remember, one will always become a victim in the area of his or her own wrongdoing in the past. It may be only one instance of wrong doing, but if it goes against one's sense of eithics and virtues, it may be this one instance that manifests in one's present time existence and it will cause one much emotional pain and suffering until the wrongdoing has been corrected and reparations have been done and the karmic lesson has been learned.

RIGHT AND WRONG

Let us consider that each being on this planet has a set of standards that he lives by. We usually call these standards principles, virtues or integrity. And supposing that each being also has another set of standards that oppose the first set of standards. We'll call the first set of standards the positive standards and the second set will be called the negative standards.

However, in the sense we are using positive and negative, we do not mean good or bad. We only mean that the two sets of standards are in opposition to one another.

OBSERVATIONS REGARDING KARMA

When presented with a problem, the being has a choice of using his positive standards or his negative standards as a solution.

If he uses the positive standards, this means he will have to take responsibility for what he has created and this often translates in present time as having to endure some kind of sacrifice of comfort, convenience or pleasure.

More often than not, the being will choose to utilize his negative standards so as not to have to endure the sacrifice of comfort, convenience or pleasure. This gives the appearance that the problem has been handled. But. . .

By utilizing the negative standards in present time to handle a present time problem so as to not to have to sacrifice present time comfort, convenience or pleasure, the being then has initiated the creation of a future time problem which continues to get bigger and bigger as it gets drawn toward present time. Often, this may be of overwhelming proportions but in any case, the being then suffers the enforced loss of comfort, convenience or pleasure which originally was a self-determined choice. He loses his future self-determinism by resorting to the negative standards to handle the present time problem. This is karma in action

WHY THE BEING VIOLATES HIS STANDARDS

The being violates his positive standards because he does not want to take responsibility for his negative creations (problems manifesting in present time). He violates his positive standards because he does not want to give up present time comfort and convenience or pleasure. He is trying to avoid the pain of having to be responsible (manifesting as the pain of having to give up present time comfort, convenience or pleasure).

WHY THE BEING GETS FURIOUS WITH ITSELF WHEN IT VIOLATES ITS OWN BASIC STANDARDS

Here is the sequence:

1. A present time problem is temporarily handled by committing a negative standards action (surviving identity)
2. This violates the positive standards.
3. The violation of the positive standards creates a threat to one's beingness.
4. The threat to one's beingness triggers a rightness defense control mechanism. (This is how the being dramatizes handling the threat to survival).
5. When the rightness defense control mechanism fails to handle the threat to survival, the being receives some kind of negative standards representation--the being is shown his negative standards--often this acts as an invitation to abuse.
6. The manifestation of the negative standards representation triggers the charge (grief or anger) due to the loss of a destroyed vision or dream.
7. This charge of the destroyed vision or dream triggers in the mind of the being the identity of someone who at one time triumphed over him (called the triumphant identity).
8. The being, having switched to the triumphant identity, and dramatizes the triumphant identity's fury.

I'm sure you've seen this kind of thing over and over. The person dramatizing the charge reminds you of someone else and you might comment, "Gee! She's acting just like her mother!" Whoever the person reminds you of, that person, or someone similar, more than likely, is the one who triumphed over the dramatizing person some time in the past.

MORE ON KARMA

Karma is neither right or wrong. We call the enforced responsibility karma. It is what you create by your choices or decisions not to take responsibility for your creations and their consequences. Since you have chosen the negative, and since this is a two-poled universe, the positive has to come into being, and it does this as the enforcement of responsibility upon self. It only looks like fate or some unseen force (which we can call Karma) but it is really the opposing standards maintaining the balance.

This is not to say that if you choose responsibility that the negative standards are going to be lurking there in the future. If you choose responsibility you end the cycle then and there. (More than likely the present time problem that is being handled with responsibility originated from a past decision made without regard to responsibility).

Karma is not punishment. Karma is merely the enforcement of responsibility onto the being by the being. It is his standards maintaining balance.

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IDENTITY CLASSIFICATION

There are five main identity categories. Everyone will fall into one of these categories. These five categories are:

• THE WINNER
• THE SURVIVOR
• THE VICTIM
• THE LOSER
• THE OBSERVER

THE WINNER

This is the category that we all would like to be in. This is the person who is always in the right place at the right time and it appears that life goes right for him. He enjoys a huge measure of success.

Main Characteristic of the Winner:

• Looks to the future.
• Does not dwell on the past.
• Is able to view from either a macrocosmic or a microcosmic perspective.
• Is capable of and willing to delegate authority.
• Enjoys life.
• Appreciates others.
• Takes responsibility for his actions.
• Is very secure.
• Money is not a problem. If it is lost, it is easily recovered.

Most successful people are in the winner category

THE SURVIVOR

This is one who has the potential to be a winner or to be a victim. It all depends on whether or not he becomes the effect of his own actions. He can be in the right place at the right time or he can be in the wrong place at the wrong time. It just depends on whether he is headed in the winner direction or the victim direction based on how much responsibility he is willing to take for his actions.

Main Characteristics of the Survivor

• Has a future but operates mainly in present time.
• Usually does not dwell on the past.
• Unconsciously creates problems that he solves just in the nick of time.
• Views life more from a microcosmic perspective.
• Is reluctant to delegate authority.
• Desires appreciation and approval from others.
• Takes responsibility for his actions most of the time.
• Does not feel secure much of the time
• Money is important and is usually the main goal of the Survivor.

This is a person who strives to be successful and succeeds once in a while.

THE VICTIM
This is one who has the potential to be a survivor or a loser. Life is a series of unsolveable problems. The way the victim survives is his tendency to make others wrong so he can be right. He has problems the same as the survivor but whether he becomes a survivor or loser depends on how he handles his problems and how willing he is to take responsibility for his actions. Main Characteristics of the Victim:

• Operates mainly in the past.
• Has no future.
• Views life only from a microcosmic perspective.
• Does not take responsibility for his actions.
• Assigns cause to outside forces.
• Always has problems that he is the effect of.
• Makes others wrong so he can be right.
• Generally feels wrong but won't admit this to himself or others.
• Does not feel secure.
• Money is important but it is expected to be given rather than earned. The victim is one who likes to sue others.

This person is never successful.

THE LOSER

This is one who is at the bottom. He has become the effect of it all. He always has unsolveable problems. He wants others to pity or feel sorry for him and seeks sympathy. Characteristics of the Loser:

• Has no future and no present.
• Always operates in the past.
• Views life only from a microcosmic perspective.
• Considers others to be the cause of his problems.
• Cannot take responsibility for his actions.
• Feels others should be responsible for his existence.
• Assigns cause to outside forces.
• Is very insecure.
• Expects others to help him.
• Wants pity or sympathy from others.
• Money is important but has no reality. It is never earned but is expected to be given freely by others who are charitable to those who are less fortunate.

This person is definitely never successful.

THE OBSERVER

This is a person who generally is not playing "the game" but rather observes what others are doing. The Observer is a mixture of survivor and victim.Characteristics of the Observer:

• Operates mainly in present time.
• Can have a future.
• Usually is either a survivor or a victim.
• Views life from both a microcosmic and macrocosmic perspective.
• Can take responsibility for his actions.
• Not very active in life but mainly observes the actions of others.
• Is usually dependent on others for his survival.
• Normally is not affected by problems because he considers them as creations by others.
• Money is important but is not a goal. It is not gained by lawsuits or charity. It usually is provided by others since the observer usually is a dependent type.

The Observer is not successful unless he makes an effort in that direction. Usually he doesn't do much of anything so he is not a winner, survivor, victim or a loser.

CONCLUSION

Too often people will buy self-help books or go to self-help seminars where they learn all kinds of good things about how to become happier in life, how to be more successful. But after just a few weeks, they revert back to the way they originally were. The books and the seminar materials are stored away in some filing cabinet or are left on some surface gathering dust. Obviously, if they do not continue to study the books and materials, they will not achieve their goals of being happier or more successful in life.

The same goes for this ebook. You bought this book because you were looking for answers. This ebook has gives you those answers. However, if you do not diligently practice the techniques and methods given you in this ebook, no changes will happen. You will continue to have the same old bad things happen to you in life and you will be a victim of your own karma.

Do you know what that karma is? It is the result of ignoring this ebook and not diligently practicing the methods and techniques given in it.

We have looked at several areas in this ebook: Negativity, Reality, Karma and Identity Classification. As you can readily see, these four areas are connected. If you understand what kind of identity you are wearing and if that identity is anything other than the winner, you might want to take steps to change that identity. It is the losers, victims and survivors who become the effect of their own karma (their own actions and decisions). Being an identity other than "winner", one will create negative realities and have much pain in life--the degree depending on which kind of identity onr is chronically wearing.

The Good News is that you do not have to be a victim of your so-called Karma. You can do something about it. You do not have to be the subject of negativity or of negative scenarios. You can do something about that too. The methods I have given you in this ebook will help to eliminate negativity, "bad karma" and negative realities or situations from your life IF you diligently apply the techniques I have shown you.

I urge you to try them. Otherwise, why did you buy this book?

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Be sure to watch for my next ebook which will deal with Identities and the easy method of how to change them for something better.